Since death is a certain fact that in most cases would cause grief and bereavement to the deceased's family, the existence and creation of eulogies is also certain. Losing a loved one is always hard, whether you have had to deal with loss before or not, so don't try to be a rock, take the time to grieve.
For all human beings grief is the most difficult to face and the loss of someone dear to us is very hard to cope. General poems can be read during the eulogy by the person performing the funeral. The most recommended eulogy is a combination of both since death should not be a reason to be sad but a celebration of a life well lived.
And if all of your practice fails and you cry, that is alright too. You may choose to concentrate on a particular aspect of life of the deceased. If you and the deceased were co-workers, then talk about how great he performed his job, his dedication to doing his work and his ambition to do well in his chosen career.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to reflect the unique personality of the deceased. Grieving is normal as it forms part of our complex emotions as human beings.
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