Death is not an easy subject for anyone to discuss or cope with. In some cases, the surviving family members will address all the funeral details when they make the arrangements.
The family members must simply put into effect those details that have previously been decided. They will work with family members to choose a method of burial including the choice of a casket. Choose funeral poems which aren't too long, just in case you can't finish them.
Pulling together a selection of memories and comments about those things can be a remarkable way to begin to deal with your own grief. If you are a family member you might want to talk about his childhood. Some people actually find it easier to stick to a theme, during the writing process, making it a bit easier for the words to flow.
It is important that you avoid any statements or references that portray the deceased in a negative manner. As hard as it may seem right now, it gets better.
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