A lot of people read out poems at wakes and funerals. In some cases, the surviving family members will address all the funeral details when they make the arrangements.
Memorial service poems can actually put everyone more at ease during a funeral or memorial service. Grieving family and friends want others to remember their loved one's life and acknowledge them. Burial customs vary enormously depending on culture.
In some situations you may be speaking about the person from one point of view, family, work colleagues, golfing buddies, or whatever. A poem for the deceased that prompts that thought is invaluable after a loved one has died. Even if they do not have anything in mind, it helps a lot on the part of a grieving person to know that he is surrounded by friends that care for his welfare.
It is a wonderful idea to include any major achievements that occurred during the person's lifetime. Remember to prepare and organize your thoughts.
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