This is perhaps one of the most difficult moments in one's life. The level of emotion and grief in conjunction with the enormous details upon which to be decided can result in even greater turmoil.
While such responses are fairly common, there's really no cause for worry. When friends and family die, there is a void, an empty feeling that is hard to fill. Collecting the information is also a good way to start as it will force you to write some things down.
Once you are done with the writing, practice a few times in front of a family member, a friend, even a mirror will suffice. You may choose to concentrate on a particular aspect of life of the deceased. We leave the dark and dim home of our mother's womb to discover a new home in a brighter, wider world.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to reflect the unique personality of the deceased. To be asked to deliver a memorial tribute is to be given the responsibility of assisting many.
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